4 ways college students are different now

There is always generation gap when it comes to learning thigs in life. College life is no different. The college people today are not the way we were when we were in college. Here are the reasons why they are so different.

Not hanging out with friends much

During our time, average freshman used to spend more than 16 hours socializing every week. Now, over the past decade, it is seen that they are spending less time in socializing.  They are now more inclined to virtual social networking.

They didn’t party at school

They have less prior college experience in partying. So, when they get into college, partying is something new they experience. They can often lose control of them when it comes to drinking and staying up late night.

They are more depressed

Many college students now have mental health issues. They often suffer from depression. In the past, college students were stronger psychologically.

They start planning for graduate school

Many college students now plan for their graduate schools. So they need more student loans and financial assistance from parents. It takes them a longer time to become financially settled and think of having a family.

When you are in a college, you have entered a completely new world. You will face many obstacles in terms of studies and relationships, but you need to get up and move forward. A real world is waiting for you outside the college, and you need to prepare yourself for that.

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4 reasons why you shouldn’t get into a serious relationship in college

People will fall in love at some stage in their lives. You should know yourself, increase your capabilities and improve yourself through relationships. Many people fall in love for the first time in college. But it is often a mistake to get into a serious relationship in college. Here are the reasons why.

First relationships doesn’t last most of the time

Most people have their heart broken in once at least. You need to learn from your first relationship and move forward. You should learn and grow to become a stronger person.

You will remember your ex constantly in college

In college, you will remember your high school experiences. The memories will be coming back to you. If you have dated someone back in high school, then you will keep on remembering that person, and it will hold you back from moving on.

Chance to meet your ex

Many people date several times in college. If you are a party goer, you might end up seeing your ex at any of these parties. It’s hard to avoid your ex when you are in college.

You get distracted

In college, you focus more on the emotional aspect of relationships. This may hamper other important things like studies. You lose the ability to judge things logically as emotion clouds your mind.

College is supposed to be the best part of your life as you are going to build up your foundation to do well in future. Serious relationships in college can hamper your goal.

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5 dating mistakes that most college men make

College life for men can be exciting and confusing at the same time. When it comes to dating, there are many big mistakes that college men make. Here are the mistakes you need to avoid.

You shouldn’t think that there are fewer women available for dating

In college, there will be many girls available for dating. You shouldn’t be upset if one lets you down. You have many options available. You should remember that you will find the most number of single women in college, and not in any other future stage of your life.

You need to appreciate the psychology of college-age women

Women in college have no idea of what they want. They keep on dating guys and then meet somebody else. Some women end up being like this even when their age nears 40. Then they suddenly realize that their biological clock is ticking and that they need to get into a serious relationship to start a family. Guys should realize this and take the lead when it comes to dating college women. You should decide where you want to go with your relationship.

Set the frame

You shouldn’t chase a college girl to win her. Even if you win her that way, she will start to control you. Therefore, it should be the other way around. The girl should be chasing you.

Know the difference between infatuation and love

You shouldn’t think of getting into a long-term relationship with a girl you hardly know. If you haven’t spent enough time with the girl and knew the girl well, there is no way to know whether the girl is compatible for you or not. So, don’t confuse between infatuation and love. You love someone when you know someone well.

There is nothing called a long-distance relationship

College is a learning stage. You will date a girl, and then break up to date with someone else. You are learning about love and relationships during college life. So, there is no chance of long distance relationship when you have so many girls flocking around you in college.

So, you should not forget that there are lots of girls in college who you can date. You should be prepared that the girls will often change their mind. You should never chase a girl, and you should avoid long-term relationships. These mistakes must be avoided in college to have a smooth college life.

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